By Jon Kauffman
Mark has been my friend for almost 15 years.
I enjoy discussing Christianity and the military with Mark. He tells me what he thinks.

We agree about many things concerning Christianity. We disagree about the military. Mark told me a story that he feels helps justify violence.
Mark told me about an incident in Vietnam when an old woman was approaching a group of American soldiers. The woman had a shoulder yoke with two buckets. The soldiers discussed the possibility that the woman was coming to kill them. Many of the soldiers said they would not shoot her. The Sergeant shot the woman. Her buckets were filled with grenades and she was planning to kill them.
The Parable of the Weeds
24 Jesus told them another parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like a man who sowed good seed in his field. 25 But while everyone was sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat, and went away. 26 When the wheat sprouted and formed heads, then the weeds also appeared.27 “The owner’s servants came to him and said, ‘Sir, didn’t you sow good seed in your field? Where then did the weeds come from?’ 28 “‘An enemy did this,’ he replied. “The servants asked him, ‘Do you want us to go and pull them up?’ 29 “‘No,’ he answered, ‘because while you are pulling the weeds, you may uproot the wheat with them. 30 Let both grow together until the harvest. At that time I will tell the harvesters: First collect the weeds and tie them in bundles to be burned; then gather the wheat and bring it into my barn.’”
Was the old Vietnamese woman a weed? Is the US military in the business of pulling weeds for Jesus?
What was the old woman’s perspective? Perhaps she viewed the US military as a real threat? Perhaps she saw us as an invading military force who had killed her husband? Imagine. Maybe our US military had killed three of her sons? Perhaps her grandchildren where hiding in the trees when that area was napalmed?
Missionaries reached Vietnam before the US military reached Vietnam. Was the old woman a Christian? Jesus said, 13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. John 15:13.
If she was a follower of Jesus would Jesus want us to lay down our lives for her instead of killing her? How do we identify the “heathens” that we can kill? How do we know if the US government really is pointing us in the direction of enemies Jesus wants to kill?
Does Jesus really want us to kill those foreign heathen? How do we know when one of our government’s enemies is a follower of Jesus and someone for whom we should be laying down our lives? Why should we not lay down our lives for our enemies if Jesus told us to love them?
When Jesus said we can show no greater love than laying down our lives for our friends I am confident Jesus was referring to those who were his followers. I am confident that Jesus expects us to consider those who are the friends of Jesus to also be our friends. I am also confident Jesus meant for us to love our brothers and sisters in foreign lands and that if we love them, we are also loving him.
I also strongly suspect that Jesus considers those who might someday become his followers to be his friends. What if we send someone Jesus loves to hell because we killed them? Would it be worth our dying so the person could someday become a follower of Jesus?
Are we invading foreign lands and killing followers of Jesus?
Maybe the old woman was the one trying to pull weeds?
See discussion about my conversation with Jason. What Do We Owe Veterans? Or The Last Native American
See Mark Twain’s take on war: The War Prayer by Mark Twain.

See reasons that others have given to support violence by Christians: Reasons Christians Give to Say Violence by Christians is Legitimate
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